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      Ed
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        It’s been a bad week (or so) for abusive e-mails and messages. I’ve had two very rude messages on Teams, one PM here and three highly unfriendly e-mails (2 containing a string of expletives). I’m used to receiving the occasional message like this, but this week is off the chart.

         

        Why do people think I’m lying about the age-verification law, lying about the ways the Patreon works, or lying that it’s possible to join for free (which about 80% do!)? Why do some think I am being deliberately awkward, stupid or worse?

         

        I don’t do this to con people. I don’t do this as a full-time career. And I certainly don’t do it to make a fortune (if only!).

        And sorry I didn’t tell our US visitors that today is a public holiday in the UK, so I wasn’t online this morning to do age-verification (I wasn’t even at home today).

        Most of you are great, and very supportive. I know you have to tolerant every now and again when things go wrong, or I take a while to do something, but I truly don’t think I deserve to be attacked. Seriously!

      • #2808
        STRIP ME NUDE_V2
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          Absolutely not.  Getting abuse?  Block them if you can, delete them where possible.  We now live in a world, alas, where people can hide behind their phones and screens and deliver abuse, propaganda and utterly valueless opinions, things they wouldn’t dare say in person.

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            Ed
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              Sadly, in most cases, they e-mail/message me from accounts unrelated to accounts here on NE.

              It’s not much fun checking my e-mail in the morning to find people telling me to eff off or threatening to report me to the FBI.

            • #2824
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                Sadly, I have to agree – it’s just all too easy for people to hide behind screens and fire off rude and abusive comms.  I just don’t see where people are geeting off by being rude and abusive . . . especially here which is supposed to be a fun community.
                . . . . if onlythere was a way put a stop to this sort of nonsense.

                I certainly appreciate all the efforts Ed puts in to maintain this <span style=”text-decoration: underline;”>fun</span> community site.

                 

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              STRIP ME NUDE_V2
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                I’m sure the FBI have far more pressing things to deal with!  What idiots…

                • #2819
                  Ed
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                    Indeed, especially as I’m not a US citizen, nor have I ever been to the US.

                • #2820
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                    I think I might take a few days off. Social media has been bad recently (why are people SO agressive?), Teams has been awful, life’s been complicated, we’ve lost a lot of subscribers, I’ve still got months of recovery to go, and I’m generally feeling under attack from all sides.

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                        Sorry to hear all this. Hope your days off are good.

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                          Thank you. I certainly feel better for having a little break.

                          Things certainly quietened down around here. Now I need to get some good momentum going.

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