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30th May 2025 at 10:09 am #373
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10th June 2025 at 5:20 pm #670
It would be great to hear what people think of videos like this.
Would you like to see more like this?
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13th June 2025 at 9:58 pm #684
Yes, that video content is interesting.
I struggle with all the blog content being on here though as I really do react to the photos in a strange way. Also, if anyone sees what’s on my phone, it might not be full nudity, but definitely NSFW. I can understand why it’s a site full of men, and I can’t really expect to feel that comfortable as a woman I suppose. -
20th June 2025 at 12:22 am #691
I’m always curious about what people look like naked so I don’t mind the photos and, in my previous life here, I usef to send some in. I wondered what it would feel like to be seen naked by more people, and it was enough of a thrill for me to keep going. Mainly, though, I like to hear what people think about nakedness – why is it often scandalous? why is it interesting? do some people really think it’s about sex? So videos of people talking about being naked are definitely interesting.
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20th June 2025 at 3:25 pm #695
Is this naughty or just fun? Is it fun because it’s naughty? That’s what I think.
(Image is public domain – Strip solitaire.jpg from wikimedia.)
And how many of us leave our headwear till last when playing stripgames?Attachments:
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20th June 2025 at 9:31 pm #698
Yes, it helps on several levels, not least if we get nervous new members.
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20th June 2025 at 10:50 pm #699
I’ve never actually played any kind of strip game. I’d like to, but only if it has no way of coming back and biting me in real life at some point. I don’t have friends I’d do this with, and I didn’t when I was younger either.
I’m interested to see the option to post an attachment. I thought that was going to me only in the verified forum?
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20th June 2025 at 11:49 pm #702
And I see that I can edit a typo if I notice fairly quickly, but the edit function is only available for a short time after the initial posting.
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21st June 2025 at 12:00 am #704
@Jesss
I think it was 10 minutes on the old site.
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20th June 2025 at 11:53 pm #703
But I can understand some possibly reasons for restricting people editing posts after they have been seen and reacted to.
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21st June 2025 at 12:15 am #705
We played years ago as a small mixed group of friends. It never became boring but it was a bit of a habit we got into and eventually we each migrated to different parts of the country, so all in the past now. At the time we trusted each other to be discreet (and cameras, even digital ones, were much bigger then!) but it very occasionally crosses my mind that what if someone now decides it was a bad thing that messed their life up. We were adults. We were friends. 99.9999999% of the time it’s a happy memory. I’d definitely play again!
The software told me I was replying to post number 699 but then it lists the reply it at the end of the discussion so it’s not obvious to the reader that I was replying to a specifc post from @Jesss – I’ll try to remember that in future (but clarity was never a strong point!)
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21st June 2025 at 10:25 am #706
The software told me I was replying to post number 699 but then it lists the reply it at the end of the discussion so it’s not obvious to the reader that I was replying to a specifc post from @Jesss – I’ll try to remember that in future (but clarity was never a strong point!
Generally, I like new replies at the bottom of a thread. I’ve tried copy and pasting what I’m replying to this time.
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21st June 2025 at 10:29 am #707
Deleting post
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21st June 2025 at 10:48 am #708
I’m did that it used to be possible to delete your own post?
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21st June 2025 at 1:04 pm #714
I’m did that it used to be possible to delete your own post?
I’ve just rechecked. I can’t find any such option. You don’t have “Bin” in the horizontal list of links?
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21st June 2025 at 10:51 am #709
I’m sure I was warned of the duplicate post, but couldn’t see it posted.
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21st June 2025 at 10:59 am #710
So it still allows attachments, but they need to be very small files. Did you intend attachments to be allowed here Ed?
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21st June 2025 at 12:56 pm #713
Attachments are turned off for non-age-verified forums. You should not be able to post attachments here. I don’t have the option when I post here.
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21st June 2025 at 11:56 am #711
“Generally, I like new replies at the bottom of a thread” – they’re certainly easier to find there instead of them getting mixed in the previous discussion. (I wanted to say missed in the mist, which must be a very common exprerssion I’ve never noticed!) I just have to remember to mention what I’m replying to.
“Did you intend attachments to be allowed ” – The little instruction box that appears when typing a comment includes something about images (<img src=…) which I couldn’t get to work. It blanked out the contents of the quotation marks (the location of the image on the web) so the image didn’t appear. Then I noticed that attachments were possible so did it that way.
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25th June 2025 at 6:17 pm #782
Testing where replies go to post 711
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25th June 2025 at 6:19 pm #783
No, they’re not always posted at the end (as #782 proves).
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25th June 2025 at 7:02 pm #785
Yes, that changed a while ago.
(You lose one garment 😁)
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25th June 2025 at 8:27 pm #786
The forums are threaded, so if you reply to a post, your reply should appear under that post. It helps stop the forums from descending into gibberish.
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21st June 2025 at 11:57 am #712
If this is still here, I didn’t manage to delete it. (“Is there anybody there? Knock once for yes and twice for no”)
(Edit – No, there’s no delete button.) (But I’ve just accidentally deleted something inconsequential I posted on the other site when trying it out!)
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21st June 2025 at 3:08 pm #717
I have no idea why there is a delete button on the old site and not on the new one. There is no option for this I can find.
I and my test user both have a “Bin” link.
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21st June 2025 at 4:30 pm #718
No bin link, and no attachment option this time, but it was there before, with a limit of 512KB.
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21st June 2025 at 4:40 pm #719
Sorry – when I said delete, I meant bin, and no I can’t see that here. The attachment link has now disappeared. Maybe I saw it before the age verification started working. The little box of instructions has also disappeared, presumably as intended.
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21st June 2025 at 4:52 pm #720
Testing with a link to an image that’s already here, so not attached, just included in the post.
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21st June 2025 at 4:56 pm #721
So presumably that picture is proof that you can still upload attachments? I seem to see the option occasionally, but not every time?
I can see the age verified forums now. Ed started that he would automatically verify people who were clearly the same people he’d verified on the old site. It’s not like we’re getting any younger!
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21st June 2025 at 5:05 pm #723
It wasn’t a new attachment. I used the instruction from the instruction box (that I no longer see) to include an existing image from elsewhere on this site. It begins <img src=… I’m not currently seeing an attachment link.
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21st June 2025 at 5:23 pm #724
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21st June 2025 at 5:28 pm #728
You can edit posts for fifteen minutes after you’ve posted them here. I’ve no idea how long it was on the old site.
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21st June 2025 at 5:31 pm #731
I might have to completely remove the attachment option. It seems turning it off for individual forums doesn’t work.
If attachments continue in the non-verified forums, the whole site will have to go.
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21st June 2025 at 5:33 pm #732
“it offers me to add an attachment when I edit” – I’ll post this and see what happens when I edit it…
Yes, the attachment “choose file” appears when I edit.
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21st June 2025 at 5:45 pm #741
I imagine that if participants can’t delete or edit anything that they’ve posted, they won’t post. Attachments are nice to have, but the ability to repair errors and indiscretions sounds more important. Not having a “bin” option is OK if someone can still blank their message, or completely change it, if they think better of it, at least within the time limit for making edits.
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21st June 2025 at 5:46 pm #742
Editing is only a short term option anyway, so it’s probably less of a problem if we have to lose it in order to keep attachments in the age restricted forums.
Losing attachments in the age restricted forums, unless there’s another way of posting images there, would be a much greater loss.
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21st June 2025 at 5:49 pm #743
I hate to get rid of editing if there is already no way to bin or delete a post. The attachments are capped very small, but somehow it’s being offered in the edit screen? I always make typos and go back to edit.
There’s a similar issue in the age verified forum. At first the attachment limit is 2MB, but when you go in to edit, the attachment is capped at 512KB. This looks like editing might be linked to the permission to add a 512KB file!-
21st June 2025 at 5:53 pm #747
Worst case, you can always ask me to delete a forum post.
Attachments in the age-verified areas are 2MB. Elsewhere they should not be allowed. 512KB is not specified anywhere so I’m not sure where it’s getting that from. The editing dialogue is messed up because the attachments plugin is a mess.
I can’t fix the attachments. It’s an external plugin and it’s rubbish.
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21st June 2025 at 5:51 pm #745
I think we need the BIN option and then can lose edit.
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21st June 2025 at 5:53 pm #746
Ed seems to think we should be able to bin a post, so if the reason we can’t is found, editing by binning and replacing would be more acceptable than losing attachments altogether.
But all of these things seem to be bugs that the author(s) really ought to be persuaded to address. I’ve not come across forum software anywhere else that’s so clumsy and incompetent.
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21st June 2025 at 5:56 pm #748
If anyone can tell me how to turn on the “Bin” option, please let me know as it’s just NOT in the options.
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21st June 2025 at 5:57 pm #749
I figure that I’m seeing age verified members, then separately “age verified patrons?”
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21st June 2025 at 6:01 pm #750
“I think we need the BIN option and then can lose edit.“ – yes, I think the same.
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21st June 2025 at 6:02 pm #751
I’ve sent some screenshots to Ed via teams so that he can get an idea of what it looks like on a phone.
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22nd June 2025 at 10:43 pm #760
Does this solution work for attachments? It’s not ideal but it sort of does what we need.
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23rd June 2025 at 8:21 pm #761
@ed – “Does this solution work for attachments? It’s not ideal but it sort of does what we need.”
Do you mean the workaround of adding them by editing a new post? Yes, it’s a usable solution.(And it’s now putting replies after the message being replied to.)
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21st June 2025 at 5:28 pm #729
And for some strange reason, it offers me to add an attachment when I edit?
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21st June 2025 at 5:37 pm #736
And for some strange reason, it offers me to add an attachment when I edit?
Which should I get rid of, attachments or editing?
If there’s any mechanism for adding attachments in parts of the forum where they are not permitted, the site is dead. The site would become illegal.
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